Hi everyone! We have decided to change our wedding plans from the big traditional wedding to a destination wedding. My fiance and I are looking at an island, such as Turks & Caicos, Fiji, Tahiti, Maldives, etc., but have not decided...need help with that:-)Anyways, were going to have a reception when we get back.We would like to go on our DW in Feb.We have already asked our family and friends to be in our wedding and I don't know how to tell them besides just coming out bluntly.I am a honest person, so it won't be hard to do, its just I feel badly.I have posted in etiquette forum, but man, I really got some mean responses!My fiance, my father, his girlfriend will be the only attendees and the reason were having a recept when we get back is so the family and us can all celebrate.We don't want any gifts or anything, just want to celebrate with family.Anyways, some suggestions would be appreciated on how to tell them.I just couldn't fathom spending all that money on a traditional wedding, and I know we could of spent way less, but it was a choice that FI and I made after the "engagement period" time.You know how when you get engaged and your so excited and you start planning but than come to the realization that reality hit? lol..that was me. Anyways, thanks for reading!