This is more of a vent than anything. My dd has been so excited about being in the wedding, she's 6.Well, we have decided of course to have a destination wedding instead of the traditional here in Michigan.She didn't take it to well.She started crying and telling me "what about me and (her brother) being all dressed up and so forth.I feel sooo bad. Has anyone else had this happen to them? How did you respond? I think I made it worse, because I had tears in my eyes.She doesn't understand that were just going.:-(I think I broke her heart...:-(We are having a party when we get back...:-(