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I feel sooo bad:-(

This is more of a vent than anything. My dd has been so excited about being in the wedding, she's 6.Well, we have decided of course to have a destination wedding instead of the traditional here in Michigan.She didn't take it to well.She started crying and telling me "what about me and (her brother) being all dressed up and so forth.I feel sooo bad. Has anyone else had this happen to them? How did you respond? I think I made it worse, because I had tears in my eyes.She doesn't understand that were just going.:-(I think I broke her heart...:-(We are having a party when we get back...:-(

Re: I feel sooo bad:-(

  • make a HUGE fuss about how much fun she is going to have at your AHR and let her dress up for it, even if its not dressy. My neices (who are now flying in to be a part of the wedding) were devistated too, when they were not origibally going to be a part of our ceremony, but they really only cared about getting dressed up in the end and are really could care less that they are a part of my wedding. I don't think they even understand what is going on anyway, other than they get to wear fairy wings on a day thats not haloween. GL.
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    K+S 9.18.9 | DD #1 age 2 | PG # 5 EDD 9.17.12

  • Aww...thanks for the advice. It's hard! I know what you mean though, they really don't understand. I will try what you have posted and see where it gets me...wish me luck!:-) Thanks again!
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