My fiance and I are planning on having a casual BBQ reception in my fiance's parents backyard. We are having a problem deciding what to do about alcohol. We don't really want to supply the entire party with drinks (we aren't big drinkers and supplying drinks brings in all sorts of legal liabilities)... but we don't really want to say "BYOB" on the invitations. The best idea I had was to say "Wine will be served" and have some on hand for a toast or something. Do you think that's a good idea...and people will get the point that they should bring their own beer?