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AHR Drinks

My fiance and I are planning on having a casual BBQ reception in my fiance's parents backyard.  We are having a problem deciding what to do about alcohol. We don't really want to supply the entire party with drinks (we aren't big drinkers and supplying drinks brings in all sorts of legal liabilities)... but we don't really want to say "BYOB" on the invitations.    The best idea I had was to say "Wine will be served" and have some on hand for a toast or something.  Do you think that's a good idea...and people will get the point that they should bring their own beer?

Re: AHR Drinks

  • I wouldn't assume that I was supposed or allowed to bring my own alcohol if it said "wine will be served." Not really sure how you can get that across without saying BYOB, maybe just word of mouth?
  • I would personally expect beer to be served at a BBQ unless told otherwise specifically-and would rather know ahead of time than not.  I suggest either saying it ahead of time or providing some as an option.  Beer and wine is usually a staple-just maybe don't serve liquor?  We are not big drinkers either, but thinking of the guests, you might want to consider it. 
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  • This is a toughie... I would say something like "beer and wine will be served"... and then use your friends and family to tell people it is okay for them to BYOB... ? HTH! :-)
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