I just a reply card from FI's cousin who was going to do my hair for the wedding, it was a no. So apparently she's not going now. I now have to find a place to get my hair done in Hawaii and spend $150 that I didn't budget b/c she was going to do it for free. I understand that it's expensive, plus she's married and has 2 kids, but it's just adding stress I didn't really need. Work and the rest of the wedding is providing enough stress by themselves. Thanks for letting me vent ladies, I'm sending an ice cold John Daly your way!