I'm putting a guest list together for my bridal shower in November and I'm having a tough time.Do I only invite those who were invited to our DW? Can I include those who are invited to the AHR? Another possibility is to invite everyone who shows up to the shower to the DW, since I'll be sending out invites shortly after?!? Or should I just do an open house (common around here) and invite those who do come to the DW?I don't want to seem gift grabby and I don't know how I'd feel if I was invited to the shower and not the actual wedding.Any advice you ladies have would be greatly appreciated!! TIA!!