My wedding day falls on the anniversary of my great aunt's loss of her husband. She asked to be my stand-in grandmother for the wedding since I have lost both of my biological grandmothers. I feel like I should do a memorial vase or tribute. As part of the wedding package I get a bouquet with 5 ivory roses and a ivory bout. I might get a vase and put our members who have passed names on it. It will be our "In Memory" tribute. What do you think?