- Your DW is about a month before mine and also on Oahu so I have looked at your site & blog for inspiration! Wanted to ask you about a couple of things - Who are you having do you TTD session? And when are you doing it? Same day, before or after? Who are you having do your hair & makeup? I saw your other post about Rev Mike Nelson, he is who we will be having. I asked our WC too if there was a sample wrote up of what was going to be said, and he said it changes from wedding to wedding so nothing is set in stone. But how would I go about asking for a change? Or not change? I don't have any specific things I want said or done, except to add the sand ceremony? Which he said was aok. And I have not spoken with Rev Mike as of yet, should I? What is your FI wearing with his suit? Just a tie & shirt? I thought about adding a vest & cordinating tie like what would usually be worn under a tux. . . what do you think? And what are his TTD clothes? thank you in advance for anyones input - just trying to organize a few things. I thought running away to get married would just be to show up and get married, but it really is so much more than that! But I am glad to be planning, because if it really was that easy I think I would have missed out, it's all part of the memories!