Hey guys.. quick question. I am getting ready to send out my save the dates, and I was going to include a little insert with a message with something along the lines of :I know I am being a huge pain and getting married away from home, we would love it if you could come, but you really won't hurt our feelings if you can't make it.Haha I can't come up with a "nice" way of wording that so it doesn't either sound like I don't want people to come, or that I am trying to guilt people into it. I know it really is an inconvenience so I don't want people to feel obligated if they are short on cash/time... any suggestions? Thanks!