Well..
My FH and I have been decided on a desanation wedding since we first started talking about getting married. We have not picked a date yet due to FH's waiting on hearing about getting into the field he has been trying (for 3 years) to get into. Will finally find out by may if its going to happen so we have picked inbetween november and april and will pick a final date when we find out. It is driving me nuts but I am willing to wait.
The thing I am ticked about, we went to a dance with FH family and I ended up spending 2 hours almost standing outside, in -10, talking with his very drunk and crying mother, talking about all the issues his dad has with me and stuff. Then she started to list off all the resons why a mexico wedding wasn't going to work and why it was a bad idea and that Noone would be able to attend durring the 5 month span of time we had decided on. And I mean everyone, actualy went through the majority of the people she thinks are going to be invited and told me why they wouldn't attend.
I am just very peeved, one, that someone, other than my FH, is telling me when I can or can't have our wedding, two, that they would lecture me on why i am basicly being selfish in picking a mexico wedding, three, that everyone I might invite is already unable to attend when they don't even know when it will be and four, thinking that I am so selfish that I won't take the time to find out when is the best time for the majority of the people that will be invited.
Am I over reacting? And FMIL isn't the only one who has complained about our wedding so far, but it isn't their decision right? We are going to have a Ahr for everyone who wants to come so they are still included. We have only been engaged for 2 months or so... And FH's brother is getting married this summer in a more traditional wedding so they shouldn't be so fixated on ours already should they?
Any advice would be wonderful.
Thank you!!!