Hi ladies,
We sent out save the dates a couple months ago and our invitations will go out in Feb for our Hawaii wedding. A few family & friends have made plane and hotel reservations already.
Would it be okay to use the RSVP page on our website with a message like "if you've cleared your calendar and are making your travel plans, please let us know here, it will help us with planning". And maybe something about giving a no response if they already are planning on not coming? I'm trying to avoid a B list by getting a head start on numbers so we can include more right off the bat..
Should I do this or not, and what are your thoughts on this and how would you word it? Or do I need to just stop trying to figure out the guest out this early?