I just wanted to apologize--I'm not trying to be a "downer"--I have some issues with what is proper etiquette because I have learned that even when you follow things EXACTLY as you are supposed to, there are people who COMPLAIN and it is starting to GET TO ME.
So, I'm sorry... I should try and keep these rants to myself. I just REALLY want everyone to enjoy their day and their planning and get so IRKED at people who judge and criticize when we have the best of intentions... So, I get a little defensive of all of you... I've said this before but my FI has told me that I need to find my
inner-b!t@h because I am "too nice" and I am finding that you are all like me--trying to be so nice to everyone.
Today we are having a "dinner" with some of my FI's siblings and they are all PISSED that we are having a DW. My plan today is to sit and let them know how we are choosing the resort based on whether or not they are hoping to bring their kids... how we are trying to find spots that can have people come for a just a few days because of cost/kids... but I KNOW that they are going to walk away and complain to eachother... complain to their friends... We've heard already what their opinions REALLY are. So, I'm sorry if this comes out in my posts... Please forgive me. I don't mean it rudely toward anyone.
Joanne