Ok, this may be long. Here goes:
So FI and I moved to AZ for FI's job in october, and FBIL was living in Washington still, but he was moving with his GF to Mississippi in Decemer but his. Well so they move in December to MS and things are going ok, two days after he moves in with her he finds out she has been cheating on him, mind you he has no job no school nothing... So, in January he asks FI if he can stay with us in AZ for a FEW weeks. So, I'm thinking a few weeks is two maybe three weeks but no more than a month. Well it's been four grueling months and the kid is still here. He is 22 and has no job, his parents still put money in his bank account, but we have to pay his entire rent, and ALL of his freaking food. When is the kid going to leave us alone? He sits in his room and plays video games or watches tv ALL day long. FI and fight about it constantly because he won't tell him to leave and go back home to washington. I mean if he had a job and was doing something wth himself, that would be one thing, but he doesn't, and it's getting to me. Not to mention he is the biggest a hole out there. He treats me like sh*t in my own home. FI just thinks he's depressed and won't say anything to him, but when I'm a bitch I get yelled at?
All I want is for him to leave, and I can't do anything about it.
Ladies, am I being a mean b**ch?