Snuggle time NWR but potentially TMI

CFM102012

FI and I live together and the other night were kind of snuggling in bed before actually going to sleep. I sleep on the left if you're on the bed side of the bed. We were snuggling face to face with FI's bottom arm under my head and our top arms draped over each other. I can never figure out what do with my bottom arm though. I can't really put it under my head with FI's arm there but if I lay on it or put it between us it falls asleep wicked fast and I have to move which can mean snuggle time is overnbsp;. Spooning is nice but it makes it hard to kiss. So..what do you girls do? How do you like to snuggle with your guys?

edited to fix a grammar fail.

mrshall1027

I usually either lay on his lap if we are on the couch or I'll put my pillow between his side and his arm, so kinda like armpit area, and lay on my pillow and just snuggle up against him.  I'm not a huge snuggler but FI is.  I can never get comfortable when we are snuggling.

minionlover

We spoon alot.  I am not very good at being the big spoon though. lol.  I also put my pillow in his arm if he is laying on his back and either lay with my arm across him or I will face away from him but my back is touching.  I do know what you are talking about though with what I call the "random arm".  I sometimes really don't know what to do with it. 

AllieHysh19

I pull my bottom arm up... so lay the elbow on the bed, and place my hand on my ribs on the other side... almost like an L.  its not comfy for a super long time, but its the least awkward.

achiduck

We're spooners.

ivedonethisb4

We mostly spoon...but I know EXACTLY what your talking about..your arm feels like awkward with nowhere to go..usually I will fold it up somehow and not lay on it.

snuff9861

We're spooners! But when I'm the big spoon I never know what to do with my bottom arm either.

fishinflagrl

We really dont snuggle too much, but when we do we either spoon or he lays flat on the bed and I lay on his chest or armpit for a very short time.

ericaandtom2012

I never know what to do with my random arm, spooning or snuggling. It never seems comfortable for more that 2 minutes. Then I get all fidgity and we stop. So I usually try to suck it up for a bit until my arms fall asleep. Yeah, I'm no help at all.

CFM102012

I am so glad to know that I'm not the only one with the "random arm" problem lol. 

aimee58

We're not really snugglers....at least I'm not. I have a thing with feeling suffocated. I have some claustrophobia and snuggling can bring it on.

Anyways..at night FI lies on his back and I snuggle up to his chest with my arm around his middle. Or we face each other and snuggle in which case one arm is around him and one is under my head and the pillow.

ladydaisy

How funny!!  Its times like those that I wish we could just remove that arm and store it till morning. Glad to know I am not the only one!

CFM102012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_snuggle-time-nwr-but-potentially-tmi?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:0c1d8cd2-8840-49af-a008-75d740cbdec7Post:04a7def1-7227-4cb2-93cb-63cfb921c710">Re: Snuggle time NWR but potentially TMI</a>:
[QUOTE]How funny!! <strong> Its times like those that I wish we could just remove that arm and store it till morning</strong>. Glad to know I am not the only one!
Posted by ladydaisy[/QUOTE]

<div>You have no idea how many times that exact thought has crossed my mind. The fact that my dad has a prosthetic leg kind of adds to it.</div>

darlingc

This doesn't look that comfortable but it would solve the problem!

http://www.cuddlecomfort.com/blog/tag/bed/

fjw2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_snuggle-time-nwr-but-potentially-tmi?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:0c1d8cd2-8840-49af-a008-75d740cbdec7Post:b25684e7-f9c5-4edf-b28b-afd8c434cba6">Re: Snuggle time NWR but potentially TMI</a>:
[QUOTE]This doesn't look that comfortable but it would solve the problem! <a href="http://www.cuddlecomfort.com/blog/tag/bed/" rel="nofollow">http://www.cuddlecomfort.com/blog/tag/bed/</a>
Posted by darlingc[/QUOTE]

That's kind of genius, but you could never put sheets on your bed.

mbuckley85

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_snuggle-time-nwr-but-potentially-tmi?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:0c1d8cd2-8840-49af-a008-75d740cbdec7Post:cfb5d5b8-cea5-4068-a257-710963a2a1a5">Re: Snuggle time NWR but potentially TMI</a>:
[QUOTE]We really dont snuggle too much, but when we do we either spoon or <strong>he lays flat on the bed and I lay on his chest or armpit for a very short time.</strong>
Posted by fishinflagrl[/QUOTE]

<div>This, with my left arm draped across him.  </div>