So my FI is on the fence about inviting a few of his college friends. Although he would like to, he also likes the intimate feel of our guestlist. I gave him a short window of time that we could add them and send them invites, since the rest went out this weekend. There are really only 3 or 4 frat brothers that he doesn't see often, that he is thinking about. Currently there are a handful of college friends invited.
For his bachelor party, he really wanted to go to a big away football game in Sept, but expected no one but his best man would actually be able to go since its on the other side of the country. To his surprise, there is a total of 8 guys, HS and college mix that are making the trip! Awesome! However, he started to get calls from other college guys saying that they heard his bachelor party is going to be that weekend and they are going to the game too. Some of the people he heard will be there aren't "on the fence". I think it's a little more relaxed with bachelor parties, but I don't want FI to feel like he has to invite these other guys if/when they run into each other. What do you guys think? I also told FI that he should maybe softly tell the friend he suspects is spreading the B-party news to all the old frat brothers, that we are having a smaller wedding. Do you think this is appropriate?
