I just put a deposit down for our DJ! We get 5 hours of music, lighting, and emcee, which includes cocktail hour and ceremony music for $800! I am so glad to get this checked off my list. I want to have an "S" for my cake topper. I am having a 4 tier cake, and most of the toppers I have seen are 4.5" tall. Is that too small? Should I get a 6" topper? I don't want the topper to look disproportionate to the cake. Thanks!