So my mom passed away in 2008... Her life insurance was left to my dad... He lives with his girl friend (of at least two years, ::cough::), my brother and his girl friends two girls... He just bought land to build a house for them... Is it TOO much for me to ask for a $5000 - $7000 wedding?? Technically I'm the only one my dad HAS to pay for wedding wise, he has my mom's life insurance money that he is using for the land for him and his girl friend (yes it's a twisted situation)... Part of me feels like I'm being selfish... and part of me is thinking why not if they can make their dreams come true why can't I have a wedding I'll always remember? Input please!!