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Between a rock (Florida) and a hard place (Georgia)

My Fiancee and I moved up here about a year and a half ago so he could become a police officer. We've had a hard time adjusting up here but after he proposed we figured that this is where our new life is. We have settled on having our wedding at Lake Lanier Island Resorts (which is pricier than our original budget but will do anything to make it work!) but due to our current sticky situation we might be looking at moving back to Florida in the near future. We haven't put a deposit down yet but had our hearts set on getting married not only this year (in September, which is a short time away!) but at this venue.
Would it be completely rude to all my guests to postpone the wedding ANOTHER year after i JUST sent out our save the dates? I really don't feel like explaining our circomstance to the family but I don't want to lie.
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Re: Between a rock (Florida) and a hard place (Georgia)

  • PurdueMelissaPurdueMelissa member
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    You have to get married on your terms.  If it's going to be uncomfortable in any way to get married on the date or at the location you originally intended, it only makes sense to postpone the wedding.  You need to do this sooner than later so that people don't make reservations that will cost them to cancel.  In the long run, you'll be happier and that's what's important.
  • alison_lewalison_lew member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Remember, your wedding day is about the two of you. If you get married at a time which doesn't suit you for whatever reason, it's going to cause undo stress.

    Your friends and family will understand if you need to postpone it; afterall they just want you to be happy.

    I agree with PurdueMelissa..contact everyone as soon as you have decided anything definitely so they are able to make arrangements. 

    Good luck!
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