Hi again ladies,So, recently I've been to a couple jack and jill showers, and I once went to a shower where the groom was there with the bride opening gifts. Every other shower I have been to, is just all ladies. Two of my bridesmaids said that it is common practice in New England to have the groom there. I'm from Chicago originally, and my bridesmaids from Chicago are telling me to only have the ladies, and no groom. What is everyone here doing? I am leaning towards only ladies, as that's sort of what I grew up with. Thanks!!!