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September 2009 Weddings

What is wrong with people??

I just need to rant and I wonder if this is happening to anybody else . . . the response date for the RSVPs was last Friday (August 21) - I have so many people now that have not sent them back - including my MOH! Seriously? It's an addressed, stamped envelope - how hard is it to put it in the mailbox????Now I have to call people and I just feel like I'm being annoying, but I need to know for seating arrangements. I had been calm through this whole wedding stuff, now it's 4 weeks away and I'm getting so stressed out about so much of this stuff. If it was just one or two people, I'd think maybe the envelopes got lost in the mail . . . but I know that didn't happen for all these people.

Re: What is wrong with people??

  • oh yea..... See my post below called COME ON PEOPLE!
    Kari & Jesse 09.26.09


  • Haha...I just read it. I'm getting so mad. I swear, if someone tells me they have been too busy to drop something in the mailbox I am going to scream. I just took the NY Bar Exam at the end of July and managed to PLAN a wedding while studying. I don't think it's too hard to walk to a mailbox.
  • Our best man and a bridesmaid never RSVP'd. Almost all of FI's family didn't RSVP causing me to turn in the final numbers wrong because his Mom told me two different family guest counts. We had to call 4 people Thursday night when we had to turn in the guest count Friday. It sucks but it'll all work out. GL!
  • FIs fam didn't even send theirs back. SERIOUSLY? WTF.
  • We have just a handful of people that haven't RSVP'd yet. Have someone else make the calls so that you can focus on other things. It will only take a few minutes. If you are afraid that someone did not recieve their invite, call them first. My grandma didn't get her's in the mail.
  • I'm starting to call next week.  The FMIL better have numbers for the 5 pages of people she "HAD" to invite to the wedding - then didn't respond by the freakin RSVP DATE.  You're not alone....we have to call about the shower too so I'm going to ask my MOH to call the in-law family.  I'm so glad I'm not my MOH :) 
  • Meh, we know to call but its still a pain in the a$$ to have to chase people down because they're too lazy to return a freakin card. I'm no babysitter and I will no hold your hand.
    Kari & Jesse 09.26.09


  • Yeah...FI's parents didn't send theirs...and they're not going to either. FMIL said she wanted to keep the whole invitation as a keepsake. OK fine, but you might have told me that and just sent back your card anyway, seeing as I have like 50 extra invitations!
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    Audrey Pearl
  • So I called one of the people last night, and their response was "Oh, we were invited to three weddings and forgot the dates we were supposed to respond."What?? Maybe you could OPEN UP THE INVITATION AND READ IT? Or is that too hard?
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