I am having issues with my middle name. I am taking my husbands last name but I'm really struggling to completely give up my maiden name. I'm 30 and have my own business so changing my name is an expensive nightmare. I didn't think that keeping my maiden name as a second middle name would be a problem but dh got a bit upset when I told him before the wedding. We talked about it and I was just going to get rid of my maiden name. Well, now it is 2 months later and I'm really having a hard time letting go. It is hard to have a name for 30 years and "build a name" for yourself just to be asked to give it up. I was married before and didn't change my name at all. I think that may be why dh is making a big deal about this. No matter what, I'm takin his last name but the middle name issue has me stuck. Any advice?
TTC since 3/2011 Adenomyosis, LPD, hypothyroidism.
BFP on 7/20/12 after 4 cycles 50mg Clomid + IUI
2 large subchorionic hematomas & no heartbeat at 7w6d
Sonohysterography found septum and necrotic tissue. Hysteroscopy to remove both 10/5
Antibodies testing came back negative! Woohoo!!
IUI #5 50mg Clomid + trigger = BFN
IUI #6 50mg Clomid + trigger = BFN
IUI #7 yet another round of @^*%#*&
;%$& = BFN
WTF meeting 2/18 to decide next steps