I just started working in a close-knit and small "office" environment where I interact with everyone, every day. Although I've only been here a month, I know from previous experience with this sort of work that by next summer these will be my closest confidants. My problem is, we're trying really, really hard to keep the wedding under 100 people and I have 48 close family members so it's a challenge! Within the next couple of months I will be assigned a more specific task with a more direct supervisor, so I'm thinking I'll end up inviting him/her and maybe the other two or three people on our project. BUT in a twelve person office, I feel like it's all or nothing! Also, my boss is a brilliant man but not someone I think I'd be comfortable sharing an intimate celebration with. I know etiquette dictates that I need to invite my boss, and then everyone directly above me, and then if I have room in the guest list I can invite my coworkers, but how much does it really matter in this day and age? What about inviting my boss or the entire staff to the reception only (including dinner, of course)? I DO spend time with coworkers outside of the office, but generally we all go out after a long day and leave the boss to go home to his family...You were all super helpful with my ceremony site question, so thank you again for that and for any advice you have here!!