Ok, so I know I'm kind of (totally?) being a bridezilla here, but here I go,,,
I have an engagement ring that I love. It is losely modelled on the Tiffany Novo, which I fell for way back when and which is completely me. FI and I shopped for the style together, he picked the stone and I designed the shank to my specifications. We had it custom made by a jeweller. I feel like we put a lot of effort to get something special, and whilst I know others will have a similar ring to mine, no-one I know does, and that influenced my choice.
FI has a friend who just got engaged and who had seen my ring. A few days afer her engagement she got in touch and said she loved my ring and could I help her to model hers on mine?
I don't want to be mean (and aready said I could help) but inside I feel slightly peeved by it. If she had found it independently that's one thing, but to ask a girl to copy something so personal to her... I dunno, I wouldn't do it.
Whilst I know I can't refuse, I don't feel I'm doing it with my heart. Am I just being mean?