I need to vent for a minute. I'll give a quick backstory since some of you don't know it.Basically, FSIL put off asking me to be in the wedding for 3-4 months after she asked her other BM (I'll call her C) and also after telling C and FMIL that she wanted me in the wedding. So every time C asked me something about the wedding, I was just like well I don't know, I haven't been asked to be in the wedding yet. So finally FSIL asks me. Mind you, the wedding is this Oct and I got asked in June - AFTER she had already done dress shopping with FMIL and C. Ok fine. Then is was about 3 weeks later that she asked me to go try on BM dresses. Fine. C and I picked out our shoes the other weekend...FSIL hasn't asked about it at all.So yesterday I ask FI if he thinks that FSIL will want us to get our hair/makeup done. He says that FSIL has already arranged for someone to come to the house to do hair...ok fine...but he then goes on to say that she has apparently already asked ALL of the females in the family if they want to get their hair done as well. So, I'm annoyed and I text C and ask her if anything was mentioned to her about hair/makeup. She says oh yea, FSIL called last week to ask her. WTF??!?! I saw FSIL last weekend and yesterday and she has never ONCE said anything to me about it. I mean seriously. FSIL was not obligated to have me in her wedding and I could have cared less about it. But, she asked me - at least act like you want me in it. I'm so over even bothering to try. If she's not going to put any effort into it - why should I? Its her wedding day that is going to be messed up when I don't know when to show up, or decide to do my own hair/makeup.UGH!! I'm so annoyed about it. I just had to vent.