Friday Poll #1 Friends

miguelhilary2010

Are you your best friend's best friend?  As in, does the person you consider to be your BFF, consider you to be theirs?  Or vice-versa.

ETA:  I mean FRIENDS... not your DH/FI/SO

Bride_to_be_2011

My MOH is my best friend and I would think I am her best friend too, at least ONE of her best friends.

Jesster153

Yes I would say so.
As I get older the 'BFFs!' list has cut down a lot. haha  I have 2 girls that I consider my best friends and they always say I'm theres  (sucks they live in NY and CA..sad face)

And then I also consider my sister and DH a best friend and I know that they do too 

paprika28

Oh, that's a good one.

We've separated a little over the past few months, but we've both got a ton of stuff going on. I feel like I make more of an effort for our friendship, but the trust & honesty is the same.

Amerbutt81

we are more then just BFFs.. we are life partners.

RecoveringActor

Yes.  My best friend is my MOH... and I'm her best friend.  When she gets married, I probably won't be in her wedding party, though.... because she has six sisters.  Six. 

amy727

I'm not sure if I really have a best friend anymore.  During college and for about 2 or so years after I thought of my best friend as my MOH.  Over the past few years though we have grown apart because we don't live near each other and we are just very different now.

miguelhilary2010

My best friend (girl) was my MOH but I don't think I'm her BFF and that's ok.  My best guy friend was also in my BP, and I think I may be his best girl friend.

I think my other girl BM was offended when she wasn't MOH because I think I'm her BFF.

Madam A

In Response to Re: Friday Poll #1 Friends:
[QUOTE]I'm not sure if I really have a best friend anymore.  During college and for about 2 or so years after I thought of my best friend as my MOH.  Over the past few years though we have grown apart because we don't live near each other and we are just very different now.
Posted by amy727[/QUOTE]

This. My BFF would be DH. And my sister. Beyond that, probably my SIL and then 2 other BMs that are REALLY close friends. I would say they would say the same about me.

a.lemma4

My sister (MOH) and FI are my best friends. The girls in my wedding party, although we don't see each other as often as we would like, are still my best friends and they consider me the same. Also a few outside of my wedding party that I met later in life.

ButtonsPepper

No. My best friend has a different best friend. But I think I'm someones best friend and she's not mine. That being said, I have three VERY close girlfriends so it's hard to say which is the best, and thne 5 good friends that it's easy to say not as much... so it's tricky.

ButtonsPepper

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_pennsylvania-philadelphia_friday-poll-1-friends?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:105Discussion:a49358bf-6917-4fd8-975a-084bb9421e13Post:84fae0af-063a-4e86-a7bf-62c91be4f402">Re: Friday Poll #1 Friends</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Friday Poll #1 Friends : [QUOTE ]I'm not sure if I really have a best friend anymore .  During college and for about 2 or so years after I thought of my best friend as my MOH.  Over the past few years though we have grown apart because we don't live near each other and we are just very different now. Posted by amy727[/QUOTE] This. My BFF would be DH. And my sister. Beyond that, probably my SIL and then 2 other BMs that are REALLY close friends. I would say they would say the same about me.
Posted by Madam A[/QUOTE]

I will be your stand in BFF :-)

Madam A

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_pennsylvania-philadelphia_friday-poll-1-friends?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:105Discussion:a49358bf-6917-4fd8-975a-084bb9421e13Post:49c29e0d-9b61-4079-8d50-cccb6361f938">Re: Friday Poll #1 Friends</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Friday Poll #1 Friends : This. My BFF would be DH. And my sister. Beyond that, probably my SIL and then 2 other BMs that are REALLY close friends. I would say they would say the same about me. Posted by Madam A[/QUOTE] <strong>I will be your stand in BFF :-)
</strong>Posted by ButtonsPepper[/QUOTE]

Excellent!

ev4149

I am super close with my sister,and I know she would say would say I'm her BFF.  She's funny, I sent her stuff for Valentine's Day, and she jokes that I'm better than a boyfriend.   And of course, FI.  Duh.

FutureMrsTCT

I don't have a BFF either. I have 3 close female friends and all are BM, but we're all good friends, not each others BFFs. BFF is my FI - and most likely once my youngest sister is old enough to really have fun, I have a feel we'll be BFFs.

Jesster153

ditto to that lemma

Since the girls I consider my best friends live in California and NYC- we dont see each other a lot (once a year maybe for the CA friend) so I spend a lot of time with my sister since we're really close. 
 My crew of friends is mostly guys so I have a lot of close friends rather than best friends.

cutie4420

yes! my best friend is my MOH and has been my best friend since 1st grade, and I am hers.  I dont even think I asked her to be my MOH it was just assumed lol!

LadyJ10

Hmm, I don't really know. I have about 3 very close girl friends, one of which I would possibly consider my best friend, and she was my MOH, but I don't know if that's BFF! I think she's the same way, we definitely consider each other one of our best friends, but I don't think either of us has a BFF.

There is a group of 5 of us from college with whom I consider 3 my best friends. The other is more like a frenemy - and she's and my MOH are very close.

I feel like I have a list of best friends -- My best Philly friend, my best Grad School friend, my best High School friend. Of course I see the Philly friend more, but that doesn't mean I'm closer to her than HS friend (who lives in Texas).

Beagle211

Ditto amer- we are life partners.  

dolfin662

My MOH and I have been best friends since we were 4 which is 20 years!!!  We are like sisters!  Our families have even become close.  My mom's family considers her fmaily to our familly - for holidays, birthdays, etc they are always with us.

Cdefran1

I have two best friends: my sister - she drives me up a wall sometimes but she is the most caring person I know and would go out on a limb for me - and my friend since literally she was born - you know you have good friends when you can go weeks without taking because of busy schedules, and its like you just talked yesterday - never missing a beat. I might not have alot of friends but the ones I do are keepers

Oh yea, these two ladies would say the same thing about me! lol

DianaM27

I've given up on the "Best Friend" title after graduating high school, now I just go with she's one of my closest friends. I guess I gave up on it cause I couldn't figure out what made people exactly "Best Friends" besides a necklace...haha. And I never knew or felt if the "best friend" vibe went both ways as I always hung out with a group of girls and friendships/closeness was always shifting.