So we have a group of very close friends that will all be invited to the wedding. The rest of our 200+ guests is primarily family, that all live close. So now I have a dilemma. My mom is hosting our emgagement party and she wants a guest list from us by this weekend, and I dont know who should get to be invited and who shouldn't! I certainly don't want more than 200 people showing up at our city park. is there any kind of rule for this?