Hi ladies!My fiance and I are completely torn, so I thought I'd see if anyone has been in a similar situation and get some advice.
We have a destination wedding in Hawaii planned. We know only about 40 of our friends & family will be able to come, but we were planning on having BBQ's or informal parties back home a month after the wedding. Now we're thinking about having the wedding at my grandparents' house a mile down the street from my parent's house. It would be the big at-home wedding and we'd probably have over 200 guests. FI's friends and family would all be able to come, and so would mine. Were any of you weighing the pros and cons of a destination wedding vs. a big at-home wedding? What were your thoughts? (PS I know I could post this in the DW section, but they obviously would say go DW. Same with the whole "Backyard wedding" board. So that's why it's posted here.)