You guys are my fav knotties on here. Always giving good, nice, constructive advice........FI's family is 80% out of town. None of the out of town guests were invited to the eng. party that is in 2 weeks, we didn't think it fair to ask them to come. It is just an eng. party, I know.......I also know that it is really upsetting to see FI this way. Of the 39 invites, 12 were to his local family/close friends and of that....maybe 2 people are coming. Some due to family drama we were hoping was behind us which is the most upsetting part. Some of his family have accused us of not "fixing" what happened, so we took the first step and invited them all (being the bigger person and setting all aside) and all of them declined. And some just can't make it. Regardless I can tell it really bothers FI that it is mostly my family. I have a close large family (all local) and I figured this would be an issue. Plus, most if not all of his family is at least 3000 miles away. Including his entire wedding party....I want to help him in some way......find other people to invite, something. But I don't want him to think I am making a huge deal of it. Even right now though I can see that "i am annoyed and hurt" look on his face and he won't admit to it.He always goes out of his way to make sure I am happy and I do the same, but this time....I am just not sure what to do.PS...for the wedding we have an even split, 50 and 50 of which 35 and 35 should come, so I am sure this won't be an issue then.Thanks.