So I got an invitation to go to DH's cousin's bridal shower and of course it's on a weekend I don't have any plans. I don't want to go but DH says I should be a bigger person and go.
The reason why I don't want to go is because not only did she not go to my shower but she never had the courtesy to RSVP. DH called and txted multiple times and nothing. She and her fiance both didn't come to out bach parties because they had a "meeting" for the at-home business (which we didn't find out that was the reason until after the wedding...neither one RSVP'ed for that either). This at-home business this is always at your convenience kind of thing (I know because DH and I tried it) so I think it's really sh!tty that they didn't come to those events since we only have one of them in our lives.
So with that said, I don't want to go and be the bigger person because I know that if I do go, it won't even occur to her that I'm being the bigger person or that it was nice of me to come since she didn't come to mine. So wwyd?