Okay, so I have kind of a strange question. I have always thought (along with my mom, dad and MOH) that if you are going to invite more people to either your ceromony or reciption you would invite more to the cermony. But my FI and his mom think it's the other way around, more to the reciption. Is there a right or wrong way to this or can it be whatever? Also, if you only invite some people to the reciption how do you send them an invite?