This whole process has been so stressful, I would love to get a DOC, but can't justify the $$.
With that said, I need to let off some steam from my night last night.
So, me and FI work together. Our CEO decided to throw Joe a Bachelor party last night, inviting all the men from work. They all left work early at 4pm and headed out to a local bar/bowling/pool joint near Fenway. I was told it was low-key and they would be coming home around 8pm, with our CIO driving Joe home.
First of, just because the CEO is male, then FI gets a night out with coworkers, but I don't get one with the female coworkers, that doesn't totally seem right.
But my main problem.....and let me just disclose, I am stressed and PMSing,
but I get a text message on my phone from the CEO which at first I take as Joe's ride is bringing him home. CEO was staying at another coworker's house for the night, and they all would be allowed 1/2 days today (also not fair).
An hour later, wondering where Joe is.....I start to think, maybe the text message meant Joe wasn't coming home?
I try calling Joe, no answer......try texting back the CEO, no answer...
proceed to cry and get very pissed! Not coming home is NOT cool, being told by a text message from someone else, definately NOT cool.
I understand the bachelor party is a special thing, and Joe is having one with his friends another time. If something would have been said to me prior, I would have been OK with him crashing at our coworkers place. But the way it was done, was, like I said, NOT cool
And I can't say anyhting to the guys responsible, cause they are my bosses. So I come into work today, super tired and eyes swollen from crying.
Feel better now and over the whole thing......but still not talking to Joe yet....just not wanting to deal with it at work...
Venting done, thanks!