Okay...here's what my FSIL and I decided for the favors:
(My colors are forest green and harvest gold, wtih burgundy accents)
Gold foil pillow boxes with chocolate stars, tied with a burgundy ribbon
A packet of seeds with a card on it, with the following stamped on it and signed by me and Ron:
"Some people come into our lives and quietly stay.
Others stay for a while,
Leaving footprints in our hearts
And we are never the same."
I also got my guestbook (nice chocolate-y brown!) and the votive candles for the centerpieces.
I'm glad we went ahead and got everything, because we've got some work to do!
Hope everyone had a great weekend...
Linda