Hi girls, I'm new to this board, but I figured you guys would be the best place to go for this.
My FI and I are getting married outside of the church by my Lutheran pastor. I was baptised as a Catholic, but confirmed as a Lutheran. He was both baptized and confirmed as a Roman Catholic. We originally wanted to do the whole church ceremony, but with a tight budget, that wasn't possible (neither of us are members of a Catholic church here, so everyone was asking for an arm and a leg to use their church). Anyways, FI (and I to some extent) would like to have our marriage "approved" so he can still recieve communion and the sort. I've been reading about convalidation ceremonies, which sound like they are right up our alley, I just have a couple questions:
1.) Do we still have to do the Pre-Caans sessions? We're doing pre-marriage counciling through my pastor, but I don't know if we still have to do Pre-Caans.
2.) FI and I aren't having our ceremony for another month and a half, but do I start to contact a Catholic church now? I really have no idea how to go about this. We'd obviously do the convalidation ceremony after our original ceremony, but I don't know if I should start trying to figure this out with the local Roman Catholic church or wait until after the ceremony in a month and a half to contact the church.
Any information would be greatly appreciated. I really want to do this for FI and his family, seeing as his family is still a little upset that we aren't having the whole church wedding for the original ceremony.