Hello! My name is Jennifer. My husband and I got married 5 years ago for my husband's citizenship. We were broke and decided to do a court wedding until we had money. After 5 years we decided now is the time. We are both Catholic and being young, we didn't think the whole thing through. We intend to raise our children catholic and have them attend catholic school etc... I was reading my church website and it stated that if you were married outside of the catholic church, you are considered a sinner. Am i banned from EVER having a church ceremony?