Ohio-Cincinnati

When it rains....

... it pours.  So let me vent for a minute about how many unexpected expenses (some of them quite large) have come our way in the last couple of months (starting in late July).-Over $1,000 for my dog's ACL surgery-Several prescriptions for sinus/ENT issues... around $80-I left work the other day to a flat tire.  Luckily I didn't have to call for the service (a coworker helped out) but I had to buy a new tire for $84 -FI was the Best man for a friend's wedding in early August.  Several of the guys were no-shows (after confirming their attendance previously), thus sticking FI (i.e. both of us) with the rest of the PartyBus bill... around $180 extra for that-And now we need to have termite treatment to our house... $730!!!! (It can be broken into quarterly payments... but you do the math, and it's still a lot of money). Seriously, we're about to lose it.  We do not live extravagant lifestyles, and we are people of average means.... all this, while trying to save for our (already very inexpensive wedding of 200+ guests) has been very taxing.   Our stress levels are high enough, but it just seems like the hits just keep on comin'Oh yeah... and his employer just changed their health insurance.  They're going to the HSA (Health Savings Account).  Pretty much, it boils down to "Hope I don't get sick before the wedding, because I won't be able to afford the premiums, etc."   Thanks for listening.... stay tuned for requests for free help (and emergency margaritas). We're 53 days out, and I'm starting to panic. ~J

Re: When it rains....

  • edited December 2011
    Hi Lady, So sorry to hear about everything but always remember after the rain there is always a beautiful rainbow and it only rains for a little while. Try not to stress (i know easier said then done).  I am available if u need something.
  • stosha1stosha1 member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I was going to say something about a rainbow too, but Teresa always beats me!Keep your chin up kiddo. It'll all even itself out in the end.I will send good vibes your way. And... if that doesn't work, drink 5 margaritas, get drunk, and dance to your own music. Even if it's only for the night, it'll make you feel better!((hugs))
  • tia0314tia0314 member
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    edited December 2011
    Jen- I'm so sorry about all you unexpected bad luck! I wish I could help- I'm free for Maragaritas if you need me. As for the party bus issue- did you try and contact the no shows and demand money from them? Even if they don't pay- it might make you feel better to yell at someone :) Hugs and good vibes coming your way.
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  • edited December 2011
    Awww, I'm sorry Jen! That sucks so much. How are the Nyquil treatments coming along? :)
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  • hccpsuhccpsu member
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    edited December 2011
    It does tend to rain when it pours, doesn't it?  I've been there and I know it stinks!  Hang in there, Jen, things will get better!  
  • edited December 2011
    Aw Jen! Here are some hugs for you!!! You let me know what help you need and I'm there for you!  Shoot it my way!  LOVE YOU!  Lets get drinks soon!
  • edited December 2011
    Jen - I totally sympathize with you on this.  Every time we think we are making some headway, something else comes up and we are trying to squander up money for this or that.  Our wedding is about 45 days out and I'm still wondering how we're going to be able to get this all done and paid for.  But, the thing that keeps me going is that there is an end in sight.  I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, and though it may not be apparent right now, it will be soon enough.  PLEASE let me know if you need anything and I will be more than happy to help.  GL and big hugs!
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