So over on the etiquette boards, a woman from upstate New York is all sorts of worried that some people won't come to her wedding in their black tie optional affair. At one point she mentions the horror of someone wearing khaki's to such an event. It's quite the lively conversation...
Anyway, someone else jumped in from NY and said they took an office poll and the majority of people there wouldn't have been offended if on the invitations it mentions style of dress. (That's what the original question was about), and she thought maybe that's something that changes depending on where you live.
I've never been to a wedding where someone hasn't worn khaki's. And when I say her horror over khaki's we clarified that she was referring to the Dockers version.
Discuss... would it bother you if someone wore that to a wedding? Or would it bother you if you were invited to a wedding and it was dictated on the invitation what you should wear?