venue salesperson is a ditz. for example, she keeps spelling FI's name wrong and i've corrected her like 15 times and i'm scared something like the ice sculpture is going to be misspelled!
DJ freaked me out by asking if he's arriving in Bedminster. 1- this is where my parents USED to live, 2- not getting ready at my parents' house, 3- he then asked if it would be at the Chatham UMC. thought it was made clear that the whole wedding will be in one location. at Meadow Wood Manor.
florist has been MIA. assume because of Christmas, but still, haven't gotten a revised quote from her yet... and it's like, do you want a deposit or not?? are you doing my wedding? do you realize it's in less than 2 weeks??
mens wearhouse screwed up vests, and then "jokingly" blamed me. went to one last month, asked if i could get a swatch of vests for groom (GM are all picked) that weren't just paper (cuz those are completely inaccurate) and she said she'd order in the ones i wanted to compare. a few weeks go by and theyre not in yet. sh tells me they're not going to be in til Christmas (why didn't she call me?) but a nearby store has the ones i'm looking at so go there. so i went and found the one i like, said this is what i want for the groom, and THANK GOD i stop in today to check how things are going and she informs me that it's 1- the wrong color, 2- assigned to GM and not FI. and she said "this is your fault you were supposed to call me to confirm" jokingly i assume... but i said "sorry, I didn't realize the other saleswoman wouldn't know the name of the color i pointed out and not listen when i say it's for the groom..."
MOH has skating practice the morning of my wedding (assistant skating coach) which i just learned last month. i asked her if she'd be at the hotel by 7 (wedding is at 11, photographer coming to venue @9
:30) and she's not sure. she'd volunteered prior to help BM hair & makeup. i'm trying not to freak out about this amongst other things, but my mom isn't helping. worrying about this and weather.
i'm trying to tell myself everything will be ok, it's the actual marriage that matters... but several of these things involve potential waste of money, or people/things looking sloppy. or not showing.
p.s. sorry i'm terrible at responding in my previous posts. as i'm sure you're all aware, time is very limited! also TK is a pain and doesn't take me directly to the link to respond (i dont know and i can't spend energy figuring it out right now).
i just want to fast forward with everything magically happening the way they're supposed to. and they lived happily ever after. the end.
"Here we stand from two distant lands, brought together by His hand"
my Aussie <BR>