One of my bridesmaids (who is FI's sister and just got married in Sept) has offered to help me out with hair and makeup. I told her she didn't need to and I could handle it on my own and it was very sweet of her to offer, but she insisted to I took her up on it. This was over a month ago. Since then she says she has sent some emails and is waiting to hear back from stylists at a salon. The wedding is 33 days away and I am getting a bit anxious. I know that she is uber busy (2 kids and a full time job, yikes!) but at the same time these things need to get done. I don't want to put her on the spot or hurt her feelings. Any suggestions on how to tactfully handle this?