for my seating chart i bought poster board and drew in circles for the tables. I then had all guests on post-its (the longer skinny ones, but that doesn't matter). I used pink for WP, orange for my side, and purple for FI side. Then i was able to move the post-its and see how tables looked with who was sitting at them and could distinguish the different sides. This worked out so great bc i didnt have to keep looking at a list or worrry that i left someone off when i moved ppl around. It made the whole process go smoothly, so i wanted to share!! Sorry i don't have a suggestion of who to seat with the "miserable, unsocial guest"