so i have an idea, and maybe others on here have tried it and i am just out of the loop but maybe not. so we all want our weddings to be perfect but most of us do not have an unlimited budget to do so, so what is two knotties from the same area with the same basic color schemes and weding vision partner up to purchase things i.e. linens, candles, vases, etc and split the cost then they can eventually attempt to sell it and split that. to go further one another could help set up for the other, help out with any last minute issues and ensure things run smoothly like a wedding day coordinator, and anything else the two agreed on to ease stress, save money, and help each other to have the perfect weding. granted youd have to really trust each other but i think after meeting and working together it would be easy and fun and youd make a new friend. just a thought. it could also be a group thing.