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I guess I don't really understand how you, the AE, say people talked behind other people's backs.I mean, seriously - they're message boards.And if you know about all of them, clearly they weren't private conversations.I wasn't around way back when, and I don't know who 99% of the people mentioned in this post are, but somehow I doubt there was much talk "behind people's backs". Unless there was major PM-ing going on, and somehow you were privy to all those PMs, the messages were public. And anybody could have seen or figured out what people thought of them.Raise your hand on these boards if, at one point in your posting history or another, you've been called out and told you were being ridiculous. I have. And I survived. I guarantee some of the people mentioned in this post could do without me. So be it. Do I like that certain people would rather me not be around? No. But does it really hurt my feelings? Not really.Meh, maybe it is kind of mean. But a lot of these people caused the feelings aired on this board because they were mean, too. So I'd hardly say they were victims.CMGr probably doesn't like me too much, and neither does Ruth I imagine. They probably think I'm mean, but the feeling is mutual.