Rationally, I know that most of our guests are gonna buy us gifts for our wedding. I know my MOH is excited to throw me a shower. I know that registering makes life easier on our guests trying to figure out what we need (or at the very least, allows them to kinda see our taste/kitchen colors), and makes life easier on us by preventing duplicates/usless crap we don't like/need. I have already had aunts say "don't buy anything else til after the wedding!" and have had family friends already ask where we've registered.
So why am I obsessed with the idea that I'm being selfish? Like people will look at our 2 registries (Amazon and Williams-Sonoma) and think we're being:
a.) presumptous by assuming they're getting us gifts.
b.) selfish by having lots of stuff on the list and more than one registry.
c.) ungrateful by telling them, not only do they HAVE to buy us stuff, but also WHAT to buy.
I'm driving myself nuts counting items on the registries going "OK, I only have 100 guests, so I can't have 104 items" and stuff like that.
Am I a total freak or do others go through this moment of weirdness? I'm not used to being the center of attention like this!