I need some advice ... or maybe just to vent.
His parents and sister are NOT happy about a DW. I hate that they're unhappy. FI hates that they're unhappy. My heart is breaking that FI is unhappy. This is supposed to be the fun time!
What do I do? I can't spend what the original venue wanted. Plus, I've cancelled anyway ... and told them where to go and how to get there .....
Looks like I have 2 options:
1.) Do the DW anyway and deal with backlash
2.) Cut the guest list down and do something smaller here.
1.) Is not the most attractive option to me, for obvious reasons. However, 2.) requires me to start all over completely from scratch. I might even have to choose another date. But would it be worth it to spend less and have everyone happier?
I'm sure you guys can give me brutal honesty!! But be nice, I'm pretty frazzled!!