I have a friend who I have known for a long time and I'm questioning weather or not to make her a BM. She got married last September and I was one of her BM. However here is where the confusion comes in......she is one of those friends that you don't talk to all the time and you feel like you are always calling her and she never call you, unless it's for a favor. So I guess you can say I wouldn't consider her one of my closest friends. Then when we get together everything is ok between us and it's like we have been talking all along. So bascially my problem is this, I feel bad if she is not in the wedding and yet since we aren't that close I don't know if I really picture her in it. I also don't want to look like a b**ch! What do I do?