My fiance and I are going on a cruise but he wants to do more when we get back. I told him a few things I thought would be fun and new. He started planning something as a surprise and was really excited. He got a lot of the wedding party to say they would meet us there and he let me guess what the after cruise honeymoon destination was. I kept guessing all these things I wanted to do and then finally figured out it is something I do not want to do (go to Las Vegas again). He is a little bargain hunter and another vacation in a cheap hotel drinking on the strip in brisk December weather does not sound fun to me. He is really bummed that I didn't get excited and I feel bad now. I would rather revisit where he purposed, go to a Lakers game, a UFC fight, a National Park, skydiving, or New York for New Years.
Should we try and do something we haven't done before in Vegas and make the trip to the strip nice or romantic and not cheap?
What do I do! He is upset now since it was obvious I didn't want to go. Vegas just seems dirty to me. I don't like the idea of sin city, gambling, sidewalks littered with escort adds, etc. Should I go along with whatever he picks as if the wedding is "my day" (plus the cruise) and the Vegas honeymoon is his? What compromise do we make here?
Thanks girls, I just need to talk about this before I say something that makes this into a fight. I am probably being too demanding or picky. Plus, I am bummed my fiance thinks that would have been a great surprise for me.