I have had the hardest time finding a honeymoon that will work for my FI and me. I am super adventurous, have traveled the world and my dream honeymoon is a mediterranean cruise, but FI has never been out of the country and says we need baby steps before Europe.
We went through many weeks of proposed and rejected itineraries and I finally found out why he was pushing back. He is worried about concrete things like where his food is coming from. I'm astonished. I forget what it's like to not have traveled. So...I suggested a caribbean cruise instead so my wanderlustful desire to see lots of places could be fulfilled while his need for stability would be satisfied as well.
After doing tons of research, we finally decided on the perfect itinerary: straightforward enough for him, exotic enough for me. 7-night cruise from San Juan, Puerto Rico visiting the southern tropical ports of Barbados, St. Thomas, St. Maarten, St. Kitts and St. Lucia. What do you think?
I feel weird though. I think it's because I worked so darn hard to get this settled and I have spent all the energy I should have spent being excited about somewhere on convincing my homebody FI to leave the house. Please give me some encouragement. Do our plans seem cool enough to tell my friends and family about? Do you think it's a good plan? Wow I sound so whiny.
CN: Finally chose a honeymoon but feeling anti-climactic. Help.