Ideally I'd like to get married mid or late Oct. 2011. Randomly last night it's brought up that we can't have a fall wedding because my FBIL is a college football coach (not D1 or anything, just a 2-year D3 school) and wouldn't be able to come. My DREAM is to have a fall wedding and I don't think I should have to plan my special day around his football game schedule. I think if he knows this far in advance he can certainly make arrangements with his fellow coaches and miss one game to attend and be in his wife's brother's wedding. Am I being unreasonable?