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October 2011 Weddings

Thank you Cards ??

Do you give thank you cards to guests that came gift/cardless?? 

 I always thought that a thank you card was a thank you for the gifts/cards and that the favours and receving line as well as face to face time with the people at the reception were the thank yous for attending the wedding.

Someone please let me know i'm at a lost and certainly dont want to be rude to anyone

Re: Thank you Cards ??

  • The reception is a thank you to the guests as far as I'm concerned. I only sent thank yous to people who gave gifts.
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  • I didn't, but I wrote thank you cards as the gifts came in and it would be a huge pain to go back and match up that list with the guest list to figure out who didn't actually get us anything. Particularly because some gifts are from aunts/uncles and their kids, and some are just from the aunt/uncle, so I'm not really sure how to work that out anyways.

    Plus, I don't want to seem like I'm "calling out" anyone for not getting us a gift. Not really our style. I think 95% of our guests did get us something, so I'm not really all that worried about it. We thanked everyone in person for coming and continue to thank them when we see them again after the wedding, so I think we're covered!
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2011-weddings_thank-you-cards?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:650Discussion:ca643b89-8572-4284-a048-16ec1b64ffc1Post:f5f1d9b5-fa4c-48bc-82e7-e8e326527030">Re: Thank you Cards ??</a>:
    [QUOTE]The reception is a thank you to the guests as far as I'm concerned. I only sent thank yous to people who gave gifts.
    Posted by hbatchel2[/QUOTE]

    <div>ditto</div>
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2011-weddings_thank-you-cards?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:650Discussion:ca643b89-8572-4284-a048-16ec1b64ffc1Post:f5f1d9b5-fa4c-48bc-82e7-e8e326527030">Re: Thank you Cards ??</a>:
    [QUOTE]The reception is a thank you to the guests as far as I'm concerned. I only sent thank yous to people who gave gifts.
    Posted by hbatchel2[/QUOTE]

    <div>This. That would be way too many cards if I sat down and wrote out "thanks for coming" to each and every couple/family that came.</div>
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  • I only sent  thank you cards to those that gave us gifts.
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  • Every person who attended did one of three things. Sent a gift before the wedding, gave gift at wedding or sent gift after wedding. We thanked everyone who gave a gift with a card. During the reception we personally thanked everyone for coming. Send thank you cards for gifts and you will be just fine.
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