Hey-I was cruisin the March board and saw all the BM drama. Obviously, everyone has really different opinions about what BM roles and responsibilities are. I agree that BM should be there to help you if needed. I guess I have great friends b/c they wouldn't think twice about helping me.How ridiculous is it to think BM should just show up and put on a dress? Oh wait, I guess are FIs are pieces of crap since they don't want to be involved in every detail of the wedding like what color ribbon should we use for OOT bags or something. Brush it off...you have a right to your opinion-CFL knottie has your back