So, I have three bridesmaids, two of which are my very best friends. One of them I met in college and loved her to death. Well, since graduating college I haven't been able to speak to her much since I asked her to be my bridesmaid. I have no problem with that, but she seems a little stand-offish to being in the wedding. Not because of me or anything, but I think it has to do with the fact that she has to buy a dress and shoes, ect. I by no means want my girls to spend more than $100 for their dresses (it will probably be way under that). I would love for her to be in the wedding still, but I'm so worried she is going to pull out at the last second. She hasn't said anything to me about not wanting to be in and I've asked her a couple times to make sure she was up to it. How would you handle the situation? I'll probably just go with the flow and if something happens I'll just have 2 bridesmaids and my groom will have 3....I guess no biggie. I'll just be hurt. Has anyone ever been in a similar situation?