My FI and I have been together for 7 yrs this Sept. and have 1 kid. He says he doubts his friends will bring a gift. I agree,they are from Safford, AZ lol! Plus we have been together for a long time! I want to set up a honeymoon acct for us,like into our acct. Just a little trip to SD would be fine with me and then on our 1 yr anniversary go overseas. We are paying for this by ourselves and FI said no way we could afford to even go away that weekend after our wedding. So,is it ok to ask in lieu of gifts, help us with hm $$. I have got positive feedback from FMIL ,FSIL and my friends:)